Children self
discovery
Children grow up and
leave home. They go from the helpless babes in your arms to mature
adults . They do lots of things behind our backs. Allow them. We just back off
. We have to learn to keep pace that's all. We must resist to do
everything for them. Yes, just dont give them too much
responsibility to carry. Allow them to try . Dont offer help unless
asked.
With age they
progress. We don't have to stand by ready with tissue to wipe any
spillage when they drink. As teenagers , we expect them to tidy after
themselves. They may not know the tricks of the trade. This is where
we as adults, as parents comes in. They may be not be apt at their
work. They may do things badly, in different ways from
us. Let them . Allow them to cultivate skills, habits . Allow them
to discover themselves . We just hand them
responsibility little by little but with guidance. They then will be
able to have the strength to face the ups and downs of life.
Dont expect too much
from them . Give them a longer rope to explore ... just standby and watch them
develop and morph....
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